MARRIAGE IS NOT POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen of steemchurch , peace be with you all

If you cast your mind on many prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern.

Casting our minds back in the olden days was there any problem like Husband scarcity? Or God in those times created more men than women..? Or maybe the quantity of men match that of women that time. Is it true that the women then have values than those we see today? They we're home builders not house builders.

Back then, if any young man comes of age and is able to feed himself and a woman. He seek for a wife and these women too we're always ready to help any young man that comes their way to build a better future together. NOT READY MADE. Are we the cause of Husband scarcity
Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves.

Ask girls around you to describe their choice of man they want you will hear; the person must be tall, rich , own a house , a car ,handsome and they will try to trick you by saying HE SHOULD BE GOD FEARING this will let you think she is of Christian mind. But have you asked, how many young guys can meet this requirements . No you see where this problem Do we have enough men comes from

So if for instance you have 100 girls with the same quality description and is only one man that have then what happens to the rest of the 99

The ease way to have a husband is to change our mentality. We should start seeing that when God created man , though he was perfect but God thought it otherwise and made a woman to help man actualize his dreams. So woman you are a man help mate. One thing Girls today gets it wrong is MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM but a mission of fulfilling Gods word for building family here on earth

If you see marriage us a way out of poverty , you will end up in bondage. 'As a woman you are home builders and not home warmers , never be confused with these" for where you see a man today may only be the way to his destiny tomorrow

The fact am saying all these doesn't mean we should accept any man that comes our way. For not all men are husband material.We shouldn't look at a man what he has, what he owns, but rather what is made of him for what he is made of makes him what he will have

Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent.