EFFECTIVE APOLOGIES

Viable apologies require a readiness to change our behaviors and make it clear that when we don’t admit our wrongdoing whether towards God or towards our spouse we can never expect good results. But when we do admit our wrongdoing(”confess”) the hurtful thing we do and find a way and make a plane to stop doing them (”turn away from them”) forgiveness is possible
This influence me to recall jeol, whose spouse, JOYCE, was amazingly negative. Regardless of what jeol will state his better half Joyce will differ with him.which influenced me to discharge that Joyce saw everything as either great or terrible, right or wrong. Thus, if she she disagree with jeol, it couldn't just be differences of opinion but rather his idea must be wrong.
Now it took a while, but eventually, Joyce apologize for all her negative attitude and she then came up with the mind of changing from them. She learns to say ” that's an interesting way to look at it” Or ” I can appreciate that”. She started to share her ideas as opinions rather than as dogma. Now Joel freely forgive Joyce when he saw that she is genuinely trying to change. This really made me understand that it is very good to say am sorry when every you wrong and quickly change from that spot. And truly truly effective apologize can save fight or conflict in marriages.
However, it is difficult to concede our own wrong examples, yet I know I hurt my life partner and my friends similarly again and again. please God give me the boldness to admit the wrong and help me get some distance from them. Furthermore, when my friends and family do that same' help me to be gracious and to forgive and forget for your blessings are abandoned on us when we forgive others when they sin against us.

Proverbs 28:13 KJV
He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.