WHAT MAKES A MARRIAGE LAST?
In many lands today, 40% or more marriages are put apart ending in divorce. Could it be that marriages fail because the arrangement itself is faulty?.
Consider this illustration;
Two couple buys the same model of a car. One of them maintains the car and drives it carefully, Their car doesn't break down. The other couple invest no time or energy in maintaining their vehicle and drives it recklessly, that car will definitely break down and will be abandoned. Where does the fault lie for the second outcome???
With the car or the owner???. It's definitely the owner!!!
The fact that many marriages fail does not mean that the institution of the marriage is flawed. Millions of marriages that succeed has proven otherwise, those marriages bring about happiness. But like a car marriages needs good care and regular maintenance if it's to last.
SOLUTIONS TO COMMON COMPLAINT
- COMPLAINT
My mate and I are growing apart
PRINCIPLE
Your marriage is one of the most important things in your life, it deserve priority. Check if your schedule after your time with your mate.
- COMPLAINT
I'm no longer getting what I want in this relationship.
PRINCIPLE
A person who is primarily concerned with what he or she gets from their union will never be truly be happy, even if they remarry many times. Marriages works when each mate focuses more giving than receiving.
- COMPLAINT
I can no longer stand my mates annoying habits*
PRINCIPLE
Continue putting up with one another and forgive one another freely. If anyone has a cause for complaint against another.
Those are some some tips that will make your relationship a better and long lasting one.
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