How To Control On Wishes

The world is full of children's stories about parents controlling on wishes. It is not uncommon for children to get their way of telling their story of how they wished for something and then the parents would say no and take away their wish. This is often used as a cruel revenge against the children or a way for the parents to show their dominance. Children like the idea of it and this story are often used as a reason to have them in bed when they are not feeling like going to sleep and are more apt to be in the mood to have fun.


Children can actually be very creative in expressing their wishes and this can get them into a lot of trouble with their parents. In the beginning of the story they will often go ahead and express their wishes, but as the story progresses their wishes become increasingly out of control. This is because the child is not used to being told no, and therefore when the parents say no, they take away all of the child's wishes.

It is difficult to tell parents who they should give their children's wishes and if they are too controlling, then it is best to get away from the story books and instead talk about things that children can actually do. There are many games for children to play that involve them learning to be creative with their wishes and it is actually beneficial to teach them the basics of making wishes before they actually start to think of any big ones. A game called "Wish Tree" can be very fun and teaches children to make wishes by finding objects that have flowers attached to them. It is important to give them a time limit on how long they want each wish to last and the same rule applies to any other wishes they make. The child has to find the object and tell the parent which one they wish for, or the parent can take that object away from the child and have them come up with their own.

Once children are older, they may begin to have dreams of becoming famous and wanting to control over their wishes such as these can cause the parents great stress and frustration. The adult children often use this story as a way of teasing the younger children and are very mean to their parents. The adult children are sometimes not so understanding as the children and this can cause tension between the parents and children. If a family is having problems, then it may be better to leave the house until things are sorted out. This is because children often feel upset at home and when their parents are fighting or arguing.

When children feel as if they cannot make decisions on their own, they sometimes become defiant and this can cause problems. This can cause the parents great stress and even violence, sometimes even physical, as children will put themselves in harm's way to get their wishes. This is not uncommon to happen when children do not feel comfortable with their decisions. They may start to rebel and have many problems and refuse to let others into their home.

Parents should try to help the children feel comfortable with the decisions they make, and let them take their first steps on their own, without getting the parents involved. Sometimes the parents cannot help and the children may choose bad things because they feel that they are letting the parents decide the outcome of their decisions, but the parents should remember that their wishes are important and will have a lasting effect on their lives and that they are doing their part.

When children are young, it may be hard for the parents to understand that they have to be the leader in the decision making process and should not always take on the role of the child. Once children are old enough to have the decision-making power, they can usually do this on their own and they will be more able to make their own decisions. Even if parents feel the need to try to be in the picture, they may end up not following through and causing more pain for themselves and the parents. They will not be able to say no when it is inappropriate or the decisions may be harmful to them.

All children have their own way of thinking and their own way of doing things, and the way that you react to their choices and decisions is not necessarily the best way to do it. It is important to have a balance between letting them decide their own wishes and their own way and trying to help them make decisions.