Be patient
Allaah has said in the Qur'aan that one should seek the help of Allaah in times of distress through patience and prayer. Allaah helps the person in distress if he is patient without falling into danger. Patience should be exercised in case of any problem. The characteristic of a believer is patience in the face of adversity.
Once Rasool Kareem (SAW) used to make a woman cry when she got fever Seeing the question, why are you crying? The woman replied, I have a fever,May Allah understand him. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: The fever clears the human paparazzi in this way. Such fire removes the rust of Laha.
Many students are devastated by the death of their relatives. We think Death is inevitable for everyone. Not just humans, plants,All animals, including wings, die. That's why I heard about Kara's death Be patient rather than weeping or wailing and praying for the dead It is better to do.
God will reward it. Narrated Abu Musa Ashari (may Allah be pleased with him): The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: When the child of a slave dies in a corner, Allah asks the angels:Did you? They answer, yes. He asked them again, what did my servant say in this time of danger? The angels replied that he praised you even in this time of danger and recited 'Innalillahi wa inna ilahi rajiun'.
Then Allah said to them, Make a house in Paradise for that servant of mine. And Baitul Hamd is the house of praise for naming that house. It is normal to be injured after the death of a relative or a child. However, it is difficult but not impossible to be patient at this time. In this context, the incident of the wife of Hazrat Abu Talha (RA) is noteworthy. Hazrat Abu Talha's son was ill.
The boy died when he went out of the house for emergency work. Abu Talha's wife told others that no one should tell this news to Abu Talha. Abu Talha came back from work in the evening and asked, how is the boy? The wife replied that she was calmer than before. That's it He said he had brought dinner for her. He ate and slept in peace Read.
Vare's wife asked him wisely, "If someone borrows an object from someone and wants to return it, who has the right to keep the object in the corner?" Abu Talha said, well, how can this right be achieved? Then the wife said, be patient with your son .