It was not your fault and I cannot have you blaming yourself, so - I'm embarrassed to tell you why it was my fault, but here goes:

I was on your blog page and I saw you are following very few, so I wondered whether my name will be in the list. As in the image I posted, what I saw was my name, but with a blank beside it - so I thought, if she had unfollowed, it would say, "FOLLOW" but for there to be a blank, she must have muted.

What is the truth? It was blank next to my name because I was looking at it, for you the words Follow/Unfollow would appear. I presume the coders decided that a visitor should not be allowed to alter his own status from any blog page but their own, so I was blanked. If you look at my list, I guess you'll see your name, but without any indication of the status next to it. Just as you do not have a button for Follow in your own heading - I would not mind following myself, but they did not think it would be a good idea.

We learn from our mistakes, they say, but it is embarrassing.

My dear, my apologies (συγνώμη) for worrying you for nothing - and seeing I am on such a short list has done much to boost my self-confidence.