ARE YOU ANGRY AND SHOCKING CHILDREN FROM YOUR FLESH BLOOD?

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This time I will share a little motivation to all of you. The motivation this time was born from the heart and wanted to reflect on what had happened in real situations and not opinions. I am trying to design a story of a child when he asks to be accompanied to sleep, even though your body is tired, and you know that he can sleep alone. Then, his whining raises his emotions, then out of control, a high voice, yelling, or other unpleasant behavior comes out.

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Then the child was silent. Startled. But, actually more than that, his little heart was hurt. He then obediently climbed into bed himself, embraced the bolster, faced the wall, and tried to soothe the wounded heart and minimize the sadness. In fact, he just wants to be with you. Just don't know how to ask for it in a fun way. He just wants to be close to you, because only the smell of your body gives him comfort. Unfortunately, his little brain is not connected enough to understand that you are tired, tired, tired. With all your activities that start even before the sun shows itself. He doesn't understand yet.

So sadly, facing the wall, he slowly fell asleep.

I'm sure slowly but surely, that feeling of sadness and regret slips slowly into your heart. You realize that you were overreacting. The scream was too loud, or whatever it was, that made your little heart hurt, actually, it doesn't need to be like that.

Then, with your chest full of regret, you turn around and look at her little body and face, which has fallen asleep with sorrow. You kiss that face, sometimes tears fall without feeling. You kiss that little hand. Apologize to him, when he is not aware of your presence there.

I want to ask, how many times have you done this, or have you ever done something like this?

How many more times will there be? Why are emotions so hard to control, especially when you're tired or extremely sleepy? Or when you see a house that is not tidy? A to-do list that doesn't seem to decrease since this morning?

Obviously yes, then regret and repeat again.

Remember and you need to think about tomorrow maybe not ours anymore. Because the little child belongs to God, which is entrusted to your hands, for you to take care of for a while. Created by him, so that he is completely dependent on you at this small age. And Why is it hard to understand when tiredness hits, that he doesn't have any feelings for you, except love in his heart.

What he is still learning is how to express it in all manners, sounds, forms and tastes. He just wants to be close to you, that's all! Every time. Always. And because of that, if all the feelings of tiredness, tiredness, hopelessness, sleepiness, irritation are hitting you, then he comes to you with the desire of his little body which is actually not that much, take a breath, say thank God, smile and bow down. Look into her eyes and notice her desires. If you can't fulfill it now, smile. Answer nicely. Ok bro! I believe slowly he will understand, that your rejection doesn't mean you don't love him, just a temporary delay. Slowly he will understand and learn to do it himself, without your helpand your companion again. Slowly he will let go of your grip and strong get up and walk alone.

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Be patient, fathers and mothers, remember his whining is just an expression of his affection for you. How he doesn't get tired of expecting you to always be by his side. Be patient father and mother. There comes a time later, the sleep of father and mother will not be disturbed anymore, the house will always be clean. But for now ladies and gentlemen, face the crying, whining with a breath, smile, and lowering your body to the level of his eyes. Smile and look at him. Your baby won't be that small forever. If it's too late, take lessons immediately to introspect yourself towards changes in the face of young children's adaptation.

So that I can share a little motivation and hopefully useful. Thank you for reading. Stay safe and stay healthy. Health is Wealth.

Regards!🙂
@aronexxon