Life after divorce

in #life7 years ago

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One of the problems of divorce for me is that I fell out of social life. Animals require a lot of time and I have to take this into account. But, on the other hand, the loss of social ties made me more vulnerable. I decided that the situation should be corrected. Therefore, when my client invited me to the opening of her father-in-law's exhibition, I agreed.
It was unusual, because the last nine months I went to the city only to pick up animal feed. Even if I was going to meet my daughter, I still planned the trip so as to pick up food or something else for the animals. And I was always in a hurry. But today I changed it.

I started by re-planning all day. I fed the animals earlier than usual, deciding that it would not harm them. Then I chose clothes that I like, and not one that is comfortable for working with animals, and I went. On the way, I allowed myself to stop to relax and have a cup of coffee with a croissant. I was in no hurry.
The opening of the exhibition was very interesting. My friend introduced me to new people. We had a wonderful time. I even received new information for my lectures on copyright, since most of the paintings were co-written, and this is not too frequent in painting.

So, the first steps have been taken. When I returned home, everything was in order. Animals, of course, were bored, but this was not critical for them. I think that they will gradually get used to it, that sometimes I may be absent longer than usual, and I will get used to thinking about my own life too and not feeling selfish about it.

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Nice to hear you are expanding your world :-)😁

Very important that you do something for yourself from time to time - you do a lot for the animals, but must also look after yourself.

This is stupid, but I am ashamed to waste time on myself. I understand that this is wrong, but it is. But I am working on it :)

I understand it all too well, because I do the same, but we need to sometimes do something for ourselves.

You can't look after all those animals and not look after yourself just as much. Glad you had some me time :)

I learn how to do it again:)

You area doing really well. :)

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