Morning Coffee Writing

Why is it sometimes so difficult for us to part with the past? Why can not we part with people for a long time, relations with which are quite difficult? Why do not we leave work that is no longer of interest to us? Of course, there can be many reasons. But the most unpleasant and the one that is difficult to comprehend is the peculiarities of our memory.

In fact, our memories often have nothing to do with reality. Our brains helpfully interpret past events as we would subconsciously want it. As a result, we get a distorted picture of the past. And very often it is a picture in which everything is fine. And we stubbornly cling to an obsolete relationship or situation, hoping to return everything "good". But often, if we look at the past objectively, we can find out that for a long time it's not at all good.

It is important to understand that in this life there is nothing eternal. Relationships and situations can develop in different directions. When we feel that they have outlived themselves, we must find the courage and get rid of them. The new will not come into our lives while we cling to the past. The most important thing is to be able to distinguish mental illusions from a temporary crisis in order to understand when to leave, and when to rise to a new level in old relationships or situations.

I wish you a wonderful Friday day and a living relationships!