Life response feels not accepted by others

in #life6 years ago

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Have you ever found that you cannot receive other guests? There must be many people who are inferior or even those who find them cannot be accepted by others. So many of them are looking for solutions and are willing to do various ways so that they can be accessed by other people. Then how to read a thought if we feel inferior when in an environment that is not in accordance with our lives?

Like in a story of someone's life, call it Dino. This SiDino has an environment that is not available in the environment. Dino is a quiet child and wants to join a crowded environment. But because the environment is very crowded with slang kids and noisy children, there is also Dino unable to accept in this environment because this Dino is a quiet child. So the Dino must be someone else so he can accept the environment. And that makes Dino feel tired every day.

Friends, we all must realize that we will never be able to be ourselves from others. If we want to be someone else, surely we will feel tired in the long run. Now, from the life story of the Dino we can conclude that the biggest mistake is to force yourself to accept the environment, even though the community is not in accordance with his life.
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And in fact, in this life not all people are compatible with our lives and not everyone is in accordance with our lives. And people who are in an environment that cannot accept our existence, that means they are not suitable and do not suit us. Then why do you force yourself so that you can be accepted in their environment? Are you sure, when you have been accepted into the environment they will care about you? In fact they will not care about you.

Because people who do not fit us, they will only be with us when we are alone or when we feel happy, but when we are difficult they will disappear and run away. True, or not?. You can see and witness the evidence for yourself in your life, when you feel sick or in distress, there are many people who want to visit you and help you? Certainly a little, that's because people who fit your life are few.

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From now on open ourselves to people who want to accept us as we are. Expand our relationships, because later there will definitely be a group of people who want to accept us for who we are, without having to change ourselves into someone else. Believe that the person most sought after by others in life is only one, namely a person who is happy with himself. Think about what can make us happy when we do not have anyone. Everyone must have that and of course different.

What can you do and can make you feel happy? Find it as much as possible if you want to be searched by others, and be happy with yourself first. Because people will only come to you when you feel happy not when you are upset. And from now on change our focus, which previously focused only on how to get us accepted by others, now focus on how we can make ourselves happy. When we are happy with ourselves, luck will come slowly and surely.
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Thank you for reading, this is all the experience of our lives, and with this hopefully we can transform ourselves into the best and benefit all.

Bay ... @anif123.
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