When our expectations don't match reality
There are times when someone who has lost hope always wants to express his feelings. Although not all, there are also those who do not want to reveal it and prefer to bury it in their hearts and minds. In fact, sharing it with the world in a positive way will make the burden of life feel lighter. Sharing stories about the tough problems that are going on in life can make life more positive. Sharing feelings does not mean doing it by complaining.
The way to share stories when expectations don't match reality is to avoid complaining as much as possible, which will actually create a negative impression on listeners. Therefore, when expectations do not match your wishes, don't be in a hurry to take action. Don't talk about how bad and how sad your life was at that time because it will not improve the situation and feelings. Try to take and look at unfulfilled hopes from a different perspective so that it can be a lesson and wisdom not only for those of you who experience it but also for those who hear your story, not your complaints.
When the hope of a dream that is not achieved is truly irreparable, it means the expectation of something that does not happen a second time, such as a test, test, etc. where a second chance is not repeated. A new dream does not mean not to stop trying for a dream that is not achieved, but it is also useful to restore lost hope. A new dream can be a distraction so that you can focus on problems due to unfulfilled desires that can quickly leave your life.
One thing is for sure, never rely on yourself especially others because it is too heavy. Rely on Him who gives you hope and confidence. Keep the spirit and never lose hope. There's no need to rush to turn things around. With just a few steps, the unattainable hope can slowly recover. The trick is quite easy, light a candle in the middle of the dark night. When the candle is lit in the dark then draw a lesson that the slightest light can overcome the terrible darkness. Any big problem that threatens hope can be overcome with faith and unyielding determination.
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