Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven
Hello and Hi to the steemians of Incredible India community. Today I am going to share my views and other facts about marriages that are made or not in Heaven.
The first marriage occurred in this world was between Adam and Eve( Hazrat Adam (A.S) and Bibi Hawa). It is a fact that most of the religious people belief e.g. Christians, Jews and Muslims.
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Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.
Absolutely yes, I believe that marriages are made in the heaven. As I mentioned before the marriage of first 2 people( Adam and Eve [peace be upon them]) which was made in Heaven. Their marriage was happened in Heaven and after their mistake they were brought to the land(Earth), but their marriage was made and done in marriage.
According to this story and fact( which I believe), all the marriages are made in Heaven.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?
| Arrange | Love |
|---|---|
| Arrange marriages involves parents or family members to select a partner for men and women | In love marriage both the partners fall in love after that they decide to marry |
| Lacks communication due to understanding and both don't understand each other at first | Lack of acceptance by families in love marriage |
| It is done mostly in same ethnic | Love can be done with different ethnic |
| Love bonds are made with time or sometimes couples don't love each other | Love bonds are from the start but over time it may become lower |
I prefer arrange marriage because family is compatible with it and it cannot lead dispute between families. Love marriage can also be fine if your family knows your lover and is compatible with it. According to our society mostly arrange marriages are preferred because of religious beliefs and customs.
According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?
According to me happy married life is compromising with each other and not sharing your weaknesses with other peoples.
- The problems arising with couples should be discussed between the couples.
- Men should think and take actions with cool minds and women should not share their partner's secrets with friends and cousins.
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.
- Poor communication or communication decrease due to disputes in some ways.
- Emotions between couples decreases over time
- Trust is main the thing in bonding but if breach of trust is done it leads separations and mental distance.
- Financial problems and money related ways can cause separation.
- Unwanted marriage or doing arrange marriage when you are in love.
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Hello dear, @amjadali00
Thank you brother appreciating my post and may you get a good partner and if you are married may your bonds become more stronger
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Hey! I complete agree with the point you mentioned that the problems arising with couples should be discussed between the couples and women shouldn't share their partner's secrets with friends and cousins.
Great points all should follow.👏