This is our life
Our life is first part of our family, then part of relatives, then part of society, part of the state. After dividing everyone's share, there is nothing left to say.
We have to fulfill the wishes of the family, protect the face of the relatives, accept the demands of the society, follow the word of the state. There is no value in what I want. Although life is mine but everyone wants us to meet their expectations. How much I have been able to meet the expectations of others is more important to me than the calculation of my wants and needs.
Others tend to share my success, but they don’t want to blame my failures. But if they have a part in my success, if they have a part in my life, they should have a part in my failure. But they leave it up to me. If so, why not leave my whole life to me?
We deprive the one whose life is the ultimate selfish, for the sake of their own visible and invisible interests. We do not let him decide alone, we try to influence his decision at any cost, we have taken it as a duty.
Why do others think that I am happy with their happiness? Should their dream be my dream too? Why do you think the definition of their success is the same as my definition of success? Why can't they think of something different?
Why am I not allowed to grow up like me? Why am I not allowed to think like me? Why am I not allowed to be like me? Why does everyone want to control me - to sort them out?
Why waste my chances, ruin my personal life in order to build someone else's mind? Why don't family, relatives, friends, society, the state think of me as I do, never look at me from my point of view?
Life is dependent on me from birth, 'my life' is never 'mine' - except fatigue, defeat and death.