With divorce, life does not end

One evening, when I came home from work and saw a bag in the hallway, I thought that one of our relatives came to visit us without warning. But then my husband came to me and said very calmly: "We can no longer live together. We need to get a divorce. "

At me from his words there was such condition, as if the end of the world has come. He left, and I stayed all evening, without undressing. It's good that my mother had at least a son.

Yes, we recently quarreled often, my husband made comments for anything, but I could not even think that he was planning a divorce. I was very hurt and hurt.

After the divorce, I hired a nanny for a five-year-old son, and I myself tried to spend more time at work, in order to get a little distracted. I bought a dog, which my son and I had long dreamed of, but my husband was against it. Now in the mornings and evenings after work we walk with our Rex. The husband came to his son only on Sundays. About his personal life did not know anything, but did not want to ask.

But little by little I reconciled to my position of abandoned wife. It's been two years now, and I remember it calmly. Moreover, I now would not have agreed to live together again, although recently the former husband hinted at it.

I learned to live by myself, to plan my time from no one else and without asking permission. In the evenings, I do not listen to the moralizing that I do not prepare dinner properly, cut a salad or washed dishes. I even learned to do minor repairs in the house.

I have a loved one, but I'm not in a hurry to get married, I'm not afraid that he will change his mind, and I will be left alone. I have already learned to live alone and appreciate freedom. But if I decide to marry, then I will never repeat the mistakes that were in my past family life.