The reality that we long for, the reality that happens to us and the reality that we expect
At some point, many of us have come to think: I don't understand why I'm living this? I'm the victim of a government system, a job, a country, a partner, some coworkers, a boss, of some children and an endless number of people and situations that happen to us and with which we do not agree.
In this publication I have wanted to identify what we usually dream or long for for our reality, what really happens to us and based on that what we expect to happen.
So if what I have prepared for you has caught your attention, I invite you to join me in this reflection.
What the experts explain
Many authors explain that:
"Our thoughts create our reality - where we put our attention is the direction in which we tend to go." Peter McWilliams.
That said, and although it sounds a bit crazy at first, each one of us is responsible for our reality and not the victims, that is, there is an authorship not only intellectual and emotional but even soulful of the external reality that happens to us.
This makes us "conscious or unconscious creators" of everything that happens to us throughout our lives, even many holistic thinkers think that our souls decide to experience and live what happens to us before even coming to this world, everything will be part of an orchestra of events that we will need to grow inside and evolve.
We do not know where our life story will end, but many people focus on mastering the art of generating positive thoughts and neutralizing negative ones, that is, those that usually generate emotions such as fear, anger, envy, among others.
How can we master this art ?
I would say that we can achieve this in different ways, the first is by making use of ** visualization **, we begin to imagine finding a parking space in the place we want, getting the product we like, finding the right person to solve it. to a problem, among others
Another way is through ** verbal programming **, for this we will need to change our internal dialogue, this is where empowering affirmations and positive decrees come in, recognizing how we usually speak to ourselves and reprogram negative phrases or dialogues towards ourselves.
This kind of dynamics will help to “create a healthier external reality”, remember that to begin to see external changes we must first make internal changes.
This does not happen overnight
It is important to know that after years of thinking, feeling in a certain way, it will not be easy to make these kinds of changes, hence the importance of having a lot of willpower, determination and discipline.
It will be common to find days full of emotional ups and downs, sometimes full of joy, other times full of pain or frustration, I would say that this kind of changes can be associated with stirring the water of a river, the water represents our emotions and the The bottom of the river would be our beliefs and customs that when removed will make the water cloudy, so you have to be patient and trust that when everything settles the water will be clear again and everything will now begin to flow in a better way.
If during this process you feel overwhelmed, I advise you to stop for a moment and ask yourself: What is it that moves you to generate and change your life with positive thoughts?
If you are still not very clear on the answer to this question, I would like to share with you the following thought that I will quote verbatim:
Our soul has a life plan for us that may contain goals that differ from our ideas about what is desirable in our lives. The basic creative force in our lives is our soul and not our human thoughts.
We can work with the creative force of our soul or we can work against it. Positive thinking directed at desires and aspirations that do not conform to our soul's plan is not effective. But positive thoughts that are aligned with our soul's intentions sustain the creation process and add a sense of grace and fluidity to it.Source
The aforementioned may be the explanation for why sometimes things in life do not go the way we want, everything has its purpose that goes beyond what we can sometimes understand.
From now on, when you generate positive thoughts, do not limit them only to the outer plane, to the environment, because in fact they must first be generated within ourselves and this goes beyond something merely human facts.
Remember that you are wise, that positive thoughts will help you reach that inner wisdom, that this will be reflected in your external reality, that you can achieve fullness in more ways than you imagine, from now on connect with your best part to Through your positive thoughts and be the best version of yourself.
Hello @alanasteemit!
Good post. Certainly we must keep positive thoughts and attitude, be grateful at all times and visualize what we want to achieve what we propose. It is a process of change but we will get the best out of us. Greetings!
Life has ups and downs, expectations and realities, truths and lies, we create some goals that are fulfilled and others that are not, where in some we are responsible and in others are things of circumstances or destiny.
thank you for sharing