Not all past should be forgotten

Past is a necessary evil we shouldn't forget as against what many has argued as being bad to remember since they believe it might have a negative impact on the present by do doing affect the future most especially when it come to relationship.

In relationship, we see, the two in relationship who always shy from their past that is, finding it difficult to open up to their partner with the mind of being rejected or caused unhealthy fuss which might mar such relationship. So instead of confiding in their partner they rather hide it with the hope of them securing a better future without knowing that their past could turn to ghost and haunt them latter in the future.

Yesterday, as I was trying to get a lady to talk who always keep to herself, about her past which at first she refused bluntly, I made her to understand that you really can't make the present work when you haven't settle with her past. She said that her past was nothing to talk about so I should forget it , she almost bust into tears after much persuasion, at that moments, I had to refrain and caution myself, if I couldn't help the situation, I had better just let the sleeping dog lies. It was at the moment I sat her down and explained what I have actually past through in the past which make me strong today, though I never reach the peak of my career but is better to the experience I have had in the past.

She still never talked, she had to ask me to come the following day which is today. I'm more interested in her case because I had been in such dilemma before and it took the grace of God and support of 'men' to make things work for me.

To be continued.