THE BEST RELATIONSHIP EVERRR!
Everybody sometimes wishes to be in a relationship. We think not being in a relationship makes us lonely somehow; there might be a little truth in that but not basically.
Relationship shouldn’t make you “not lonely”, we shouldn’t just be in a relationship because we want to be free from boredom, there should be a divine purpose for a relationship, and a relationship should have a meaning.
There should be something productive coming out of a relationship. Well as a matter of fact, the purpose of a relationship has been abused. But before we go that far, I really wish I could get answers right now; let’s ask ourselves why people go into relationships.
Many people many answers, different people different answers. I got into relationships when I was way younger and I tell you my first reason for being in a relationship was to follow the trend “I’m in a relationship”, I don’t remember being in love with either of them. But as time went by, kids grew and there was now knowledge.
My idea about relationship was changing gradually, I was beginning to have feelings and I just wanted something pure and genuine from any one that was responsible enough to concur.
And I realized I was getting more exposed, I was beginning to understand different things, I was involved in other people’s relationship, I saw how it went and I just wanted more for myself, I wanted to experience a real, beautiful and honest relationship and well I did but things didn’t end very well but it lasted for a long time and I enjoyed every bit of it even the misunderstandings, because I grew in the relationship and now that is another purpose of a relationship (will explain better as we progress).
Although I did wish I never ended things but I hoped for something better and it actually came and then my idea, purpose and understanding of a relationship got clearer.
I was opportune by GOD to experience yet another kind of love, it was so beautiful and everything anyone will wish to have but please let me note it; it wasn’t anyway perfect but I had grown, I had learnt that no one was perfect, although I still complained but I was willing to tolerate all and make sure everything went down to what the real purpose of a relationship is for.
I understood that marriage is a school no one ever graduates from, relationship is the tutorial that prepares you for marriage. The relationship was so beautiful and there was transparency, no shame whatsoever. We were so proud of each other. From how I describe it, it looks like nothing could come in between us, right? Well unfortunately something that is not known came in between.
Many people do not know why they are in a relationship, people I come across with; tell me sex is one of the purpose and that they can’t be in a relationship without sex being involved and these are persons that call themselves Christians; those are obviously church-going Christians.
If you are in a relationship and there is no growth spiritually (especially), mentally, financially then you have not found yourself in a GOD-ordained relationship, now you may be happy but you lack the knowledge of purpose of that relationship, the only benefit you gain is sexual pleasure and that is what makes you happy in your relationship.
My previous relationships before I was exposed and enlightened were just for fun until I knew what I wanted in a relationship. Love is really beautiful if it pure. I have experienced love in my relationships but I have never experienced one particular type of love, GOD’s love.
I love that GOD loves me because His love is all that any man can ask for. GOD’s love is one that wiped away the pain of my earthly relationships. His love for me drew me closer to Him and I had to involve myself in a relationship with Him. I was curious to know what a relationship with GOD will be like, how can I please a supernatural being, how can I who is imperfect ever be perfect before GOD and not ruin our relationship, I thought to myself.
It’s being years since I met GOD and fell in love with HIM and I tell you nothing ever could be compared to what we share. I hurt Him so many times but He still forgives, instead He keeps me quiet and waits for me to get my senses back. He loves me so that He knows when I need a particular thing and makes sure I get it. GOD is the most patient man I have ever met oh did I forget to mention that He is wealthy and yea, He shares stuff with me, there is absolutely no secret between us, He looks out for me and tells me what to do that will be of great benefit to me.
This is the best relationship ever! Nothing like this has ever found me and I have a conviction in my heart, that GOD will never give me a life partner that won’t be able to deliver.
The first relationship to secure is a relationship with GOD.
Wow,this is indeed an expectional post, very educative and insightful, thanks for sharing this post with the @steemchurch...... Upvoted and resteem
This write-up is highly informative, educative and spirit-filled.
The best relationship we can ever enjoy in life is the one who God. No relationship can give us rest and assurance like the one with God. The best confidant is God
Is true been in a relationship sometimes makes feel lonely, but when you are in a relationship with God, he will never left you alone and his love too is unconditional.
relationships are experiences we gather along the way of meeting our truest relationship, sometimes people are in relationships and they find no true purpose
That's why we must embraces the best relationship that is the relationship of the lamb of God Jesus Christ, he brings with him a purpose, and a sense of love, no relationship is better.
The best relationship ever is relationship with God, God's love is unique, is great, God is Love, and His love is very different from human love. God's love is unconditional, and it's not based on feelings or emotions. He doesn't love us because we're lovable or because we make Him feel good; He loves us because He is love. He created us to have a loving relationship with Him, and He sacrificed His own Son (who also willingly died for us) to restore that relationship.
We all know that man can fail but God cant fail fir he is the creator of all,is it not better to be friend with the creator than the creature?is obvious that the best relationship ever is that wish we have with God.
Nice message @abiye
These words got me. Thanks for sharing, Apostle.
the best rationship is the relationship built in the lord
A relationship with our maker seems to be the best relationship ever as it has the biological type of care our folks gives to us and so much more. Jesus came to make friends with us. The more we open up to accepting him, the more closer we get to be.